There is no other wish a newbie blogger sends up to his “star” at night than to have his own self-hosted blog. And you could consider it a shower of falling stars if a generous blogging buddy would just appear out of nowhere to say, “Hey, I have glass shoes for you”…Ooops, that is Cinderella. Rather, he may whisper “Hey, I will grant your wish”.
When I started blogging way back late May 2007, I was like an orphan; a rogue street child living everywhere yet does not have my own place to call home. Blogging about Neanderthals singing “Girls Don’t Cry” then, post about a co-worker shouting out loud that I was the one who “impregnated her” in front of a multitude of crowd and all of sudden post about the Feast of St. Sebastian. It was the routine that I perfected yet, did not receive any respect for the sheer fact that I was blogging in an intersection of a thousand routes and highways; a blog without any direction.
On many occasions, I would just stare at my star in the vastness of the blogosphere looking up those big names in blogging with awe and fancy. “One day, I will be an orphan no more. I will have lots of blogging friends.” But I will just return to see myself without any skills and capacities yet to embrace that star when it comes on my palm.
July 9, 2009, a couple of days ago, is what I consider my Independence Day. From a blogger who tried to harness his skills, build blogging relationships and restore sanity and confidence on his craft, that day I started as an orphan no more.
To so many people I thanked on my first post on PinoySoundingBoard when it went live, this post is basically for the one generous and special person who picked those wishing stars and showered them back to a dreamer’s palm.
“Spotlight please.”
My gratitude and lots of thanks to Jaypee Habaradas, the uber blogger behind JaypeeOnline.Net who generously sponsored the transfer and web hosting of my blog PinoySoundingBoard: the man who gave those glass shoes, ooops, rather the one who granted my wish out of his sheer generosity and support to budding bloggers.
I started out as a lurker on his blog, the usual acts of a street child peeping through his blog’s doorsteps, scrounging through his archive, reading his posts and wondering how he blogs superbly. Sharing to readers blogging news, reviews, technology, gadgets, tricks and tips, I saw him as a man that any blogger should emulate and learn from. Because I was blogging under the Blogger platform then, I was at first hesitant to join in the active discussions on his blog flooded by WP users, keeping my fangs and rabid commenting prowess under my sleeves.
But Jaypee certainly knows how to welcome his guests and make them feel comfortable on his blog no matter what niche they are blogging about. Inviting people for a n overflowing coffee and chips on his blog? I guess soon, a vendo machine will be placed at JaypeeOnline’s sidebar; but what keeps people like me come back and feel at home on his blog is the warmth of friendship and unquestionable knowledge he shares to everyone, even to street children and Cinderella.
With this, thanks a lot Jaypee! I know, despite making sure of making a post especially for you to tell the world and echo my thanks to the endless corners of the whole blogosphere; a single post will never suffice to tell you of my deep gratitude for sharing what you have to a lowly blogger who first wished of glass slippers from fairy godmother but ended up having a star on his palm. Thanks for adopting me
Any concerns about your blogging, themes, plugins, tricks and tips? You are missing half of your blogging life if you haven’t been to Jaypee’s blog yet. FYI: This blog’s theme is courtesy of Jaypee’s wordpress theme reviews.
Image by Werner Schnell



Badet
8 months ago
Congrats on your new home! Bait naman ni Jaypee. He saw your talent and believed in your writings. Your hardwork in blogging and building relationships paid off. Keep writing

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elmot
8 months ago
Thanks Badet. Jaypee is really one good person that anyone could simply approach be it for blogging tips and tricks or blogging advice.
I am very lucky for receiving his generosity. With that, I need to challenge myself even more into harnessing my craft and become a good blogger
Luke
8 months ago
Wow, Jaypee must be an awesome person. You’re lucky to have him as a friend. Doc Z already has a WP blog, right?
Luke´s last blog ..My Nominees For The Top 10 Emerging Influential Blogs for 2009 Writing Project
Zorlone
8 months ago
@Luke,
Yup! I have a WP blog, but I still haven’t moved yet. I am looking for help hehe. I actually have a copy of Jaypee’s procedure how to transfer from a blogger to a WP blog. I’m just scared to mess things up! LOL Not that techie to face this small problem.
@elmot,
You are a lucky un-orphan. LOL. Gwapa man ang balay mu! So, did you make notes? May I copy them? he he he.
Congratulations to Jaypee for fulfilling this kid’s dream. He can now sing and dance in his own home and we will be raiding his ref for munchies and all of the snacks in his pantry will only be a memory. We shall be at home in his house at act as if we own it. “Mi casa es su casa” right mis amigos?
Z
Zorlone´s last blog ..Lamenting in darkness
elmot
8 months ago
Gwapa means maganda, and mostly being used to describe a lady or ascribed to something feminine in nature. “Nami” is I think the more appropriate word, unless Jaypee who is also an Ilonggo has another word as a description, ehehe!
Does not have a bunch of appliances yet here bro; and just as I started to open my doors for visitors, I already lost my “flat screen TV”! Grrr… LOL!
Hey, there are lots of people who can certainly help you out with your transfer. Pardon me, I did not jot down on my notebook…Use your charm, and flaunt those well-sculpted abs, ehehe! Certainly somebody would fell under your spell and help you out. LOL!
Luke
8 months ago
But I think it gwapa can be used. I describe my video card as gwapa and my processor as gwapo but I refer to the whole computer in the third person feminine ie. I turned her on, she is turned off, she is hot, let her cool, I touched her, I inserted my memory stick to her… Uhm, I think that’s enough, no?
Luke´s last blog ..My Nominees For The Top 10 Emerging Influential Blogs for 2009 Writing Project
elmot
8 months ago
Hahaha! Of course bro, “gwapa” could be used to describe or become an attribute of a thing, a situation, a living thing so long as (as far my knowledge on this is concerned) the object is understood to be in the feminine form. But then again, people can use the abovementioned word in any way that they think befits the object to be described or attributed with such.
I am just wondering why “gwapa” was the first word that come out from Doc Z’s mouth? ehehhe! Is it speaks of something? Mahilig kasi sa “gwapa” si Doc Z eh, ehehehe!
ceblogger
8 months ago
nami gid to ya mag blog sang imong domain. in cebuano, it’s “nindot”. i’ve been a subscriber of jaypee’s blog for more than a year na.
ceblogger´s last blog ..Manny Pacquiao vs Miguel Cotto: November 14, 2009 Showdown
elmot
8 months ago
Hehehe! Though I can’t really speak Cebuano, I understood what you said. “Nindot gid!” ehehe!
I am a subscriber of Jaypee’s blog too…And everyone is missing him now…hopefully he will have updates on his blog soon.
Luke
8 months ago
“Mi casa es su casa”
Hi, Doc Z. Just something about that:
Mom to child: “Lumabas ka at batiin mo ang mga bisita. Sabihin mo: ‘Salamat sa pagdalaw, mga bisita. Kumain na kayo at huwag mahiya. Isipin nyo na lang na bahay nyo ito.’.”
Child went out and said to visitors:
“Salamat sa pagadalaw mga bwisita at kumain na kayo mga walang hiya. Isipin nyo na lang, bahay nyo ba ito?!”
Luke´s last blog ..My Nominees For The Top 10 Emerging Influential Blogs for 2009 Writing Project
elmot
8 months ago
Nakakatawa naman, ehehe! Parang nakaexperience na ko ng ganyan… Pero mga kamag-anak ko naman yun…Kapatid ko yung may birthday pero yung mga pinsan ko eh nagsipag imbita ng buong barangay, hay!
Almost ganyan ang sinabi ko ehehhe
elmot
8 months ago
Yes, he is really an awesome person, not only because he knows the “ins” and “outs” of blogging, but because of his generosity to everyone. I could put up a monument for him in our province in Bacolod City, ehehe!
Yes, Doc Z is actually all ready: web hosting and domain name he has already. Only the transfer is needed, then it will be the time for me to ransack his fridge and food cabinet, wahahaha!
Luke
8 months ago
Dude I can’t comment on the post you made 3hrs ago about clone wars este clan wars pala. (Adik talaga ng star wars noh?) What gives, jedi?
Luke´s last blog ..My Nominees For The Top 10 Emerging Influential Blogs for 2009 Writing Project
elmot
8 months ago
Ooopss. Sorry on that blunder bro. I was thinking of putting it as a draft post then I pushed the publish button. I’m trying to store some posts on my draft folder coz I will be getting so busy in the coming days. I sent it back to draft for the my current post to appear which I finished earlier.
It will be going live on wednesday.
Luke
8 months ago
Ah, so that is what it was. It definitely does not need any apology. I just thought that you lost some post here and wanted to inform you.
So you do buffer posts. That’s great. Keep it up.
Luke´s last blog ..My Nominees For The Top 10 Emerging Influential Blogs for 2009 Writing Project
Luke
8 months ago
Naku, nadoble po. Senya na. I thought one was lost so I posted the other. Please delete na lang one of those and this. TY boss.
Luke´s last blog ..My Nominees For The Top 10 Emerging Influential Blogs for 2009 Writing Project
elmot
8 months ago
I already deleted the duplicated comment.
Yes, I am trying to do buffer posts and just schedule them for publishing, especially if I will be having lots of workloads that would prevent me from coming up with a post as scheduled.
Jena Isle
8 months ago
Wow, I like this post Jedi Elmot. It’s beautifully written. I need a webhost , where’s Jaypee…lol..kidding. I will visit his site to get some information about webhosting. Thanks for sharing this with your readers. I’m sure lots of them will know where to go regarding topics about IT and webhosting, etc.
Right on !
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elmot
8 months ago
Salamat po. This post is really what the inner part of the usually comic and jolly Elmot says and wants to express to a person so generous. I guess, being beautifully well-written just comes out naturally because of the sheer sincerity on my post.
Jaypee is a walking ency when it comes to blogging, he can give anyone who visits his blog infos that they need or refer them to a person of expertise.
I am excited already for your transfer, ehehe! Magkakapit-bahay na tayo, si Doc z bagal eh, ehehe!
Jena Isle
8 months ago
Hi Elmot,
Matagal pa me siguro. I know it needs time to transfer and I don’t have that luxury. Let’s help Doc Z first with his. Kasi meron na siyang WP. Can we ask for the help of Jaypee? Thanks.
Jena Isle´s last blog ..Pointers in Keeping Your Marriage Alive
elmot
8 months ago
Yeah, Doc is almost ready having a domain name and web host already. I totally agree, our blogger doctor needs help first.
I think Jaypee could help Doc Z, but what I am considering in this one is that there is a big difference between the time zones between Doc Z and Jaypee, and we’ve seen Jaypee lately to be quite busy.
There are also lots of people around who can help Doc Z: Gem, Fedhz, Holly and Jhay. But of course, I think it shoudl be Doc Z asking these people to help him, and we’ll just back him up
Holly Jahangiri
8 months ago
I like the new look! Very nice, Elmot. And what a good person Jaypee is to make your blogging dreams come true.
Holly Jahangiri´s last blog ..Making Gaz: Persian Pistachio Nougat
elmot
8 months ago
Yehee! My house blessing is now complete, guests are all listed on my guest book…Thanks for visiting me on my new abode. I am glad you like the new look. Jaypee is really a good generous man. I just hope I could give more to him on other ways just to express my gratitude.
Jan said, that I should come to you regarding WP issues that I may encounter, ehehe!~
DiTesco @Internet Business Entrepreneur
8 months ago
Hi there. I am glad that your wish came true. You are very lucky to have such a generous friend as Jaypee. This guy is one of a kind. Jumping to his blog now to “hunt” for knowledge:) Have a nice day
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elmot
8 months ago
And it is somewhat wishing beside fire place for fairy godmom to let me attend the ball in the palace; a very rare opportunity. I am just very thankful that Jaypee helped me out with this wish. He is my fairy god-pa, ehehe!
He has lots to offer bro; Jaypee’s blog is a treasure chest…most of the plugins and tinkering I did here where out of his tips and tutorials. Enjoy your time at Jaypee’s blog
jan geronimo
8 months ago
@Ditesco: I notice that in Elm’s Most Opinionated People widget our handsome faces are not showing up in the gravatar. How do you think this can be resolved?
@Elms: Bro, have you registered/linked this new domain in your gravatar account?
jan geronimo´s last blog ..7 Tips to Keep You from Killing Your Own Blog
elmot
8 months ago
Woah! I haven’t noticed that. Gee….need to go to gravatar to give these handsome and beautiful bloggers here justice. eheheh
Rob Angeles
8 months ago
Good for you Elmot! Now, experience the freedom of not living with your in-laws. If you need help with other stuff, you know where to find me.
Rob Angeles´s last blog ..Helpful Tips To Make Your Posts More Link-able
elmot
8 months ago
You are totally right bro, no more pesky in-laws watching over my every move…I am hoping that I could handle this freedom really well. Oh, I really appreciate with you offering to help me out. I guess, I am more interested with your invitation for me to shift to a Disqus commenting system…
Hope you can share it here: advantages of using Disqus than the usual WMD plugin. You can still maybe convince some more peeps here *wink*
jan geronimo
8 months ago
Makabagbag damdamin naman ito. Naluluha naman ako. sniffles Kape nga, yaya! Ano ba ang bagal naman.
Elms, so now that you have you glass shoes and met your Prince. Put that glass shoes in your shoes cabinet, lock it, and put on your work boots. We’ve got lots to do, bro. Ahahaha.
Can I get Jaypee’s number? Feel ko ring magpaampon. lols
jan geronimo´s last blog ..7 Tips to Keep You from Killing Your Own Blog
elmot
8 months ago
Drama ba? Hindi bro, it was all sincerity and gratitude in it. I would have posted a picture of myself wearing the glass shoes, eheheh!
But as you said, on with the working boots for so many tasks lie ahead of us.
Aba, aba, may yaya ka pa pala ha, ehehe!
Jaypee’s number? Unfortunately wala eh, at long distance call yun, ehehe! Kapag inampon ka nya, eh di magkapatid na rin talaga tayo ehehe!
Roy
8 months ago
what can I say? congratulations again bro!
you’re looking good!
elmot
8 months ago
Thanks Roy! Looking good? eheheh, Ok, I am just glad that I already got the hand on working on wordpress.
AnnaHopn
8 months ago
Everything dynamic and very positively!
AnnaHopn
elmot
8 months ago
Thanks for the visit Anna, I really appreciate it.
Thinking positively and looking at the brighter side of things is one of the mantra I am trying to sing to myself each day. Guess whay, it never fails me.
Jhay
8 months ago
Hands down, Jaypee is one heck of a guy.
Congrats to both of you!
elmot
8 months ago
Hands down indeed for the generous guy on the other side of the globe.
Thanks also bro for helping me with the tinkering…
Julius
8 months ago
Isa lang ang masasabi ko — You’re one lucky guy! And Jaypee’s one generous brother, I might say! May kapatid pa ba siya na pwede ring umampon sa blog ko sa blogspot? hehehe…
It’s also a dream I’m having, to have my OWN self-hosted blog one day (dialysis postings being under the gracious sponsorship of buddingbloggers.com). Malay natin, balang araw, di ba?
I’m just happy to blog at the moment, may it be under-whatever-domain… I’m just happy to write.
Congrats again kapatid! Keep on blogging man!
Julius´s last blog ..Hepatitis and Dialysis Patients
elmot
8 months ago
Thanks Juls for the kind words, but certainly, all these words are for Jaypee. I don’t know kung may kapatid pa sya eh, ehehe! Pa-ampon ka, wow, eh di kapag nagkataon eh di magkapatid na tayo ehehe!
Just don’t stop dreaming bro, you will have your own self-hosted blog soon, so long as you are enjoying what you are doing; you are enjoying writing…the blessing will just come with it.
Salamat rin sa suporta bro!
Kelvin Servigon
8 months ago
pareho tau, may isang mabait na blogger, Fendi of kissfendi.com, who adopted me sa kanyang webhost, binigyan din n’ya ako ng domain name, and many2 more..
alam ko ang pakiramdam mo.. sobrang saya!!! ^___^
hayy, buti na lang ang daming mababait (at generous) na blogger!

Kelvin Servigon´s last blog ..I Want a Mazda3 2010 Model
elmot
8 months ago
Wow, ikaw rin? Galing ah! ehehe! Astig! Grabe noh, iba talaga ang feeling…saya.
Oo nga eh, daming generous bloggers out there. Sana dumami pa sila…at kapag nakapagmonetize ako decently from this blog, makabawi sa kabaitan ni Jaypee ay mag adopt din ako ng blogger later on ehehhe!
anthony@executive coaching
8 months ago
Congratulation man. Every thing is going in positive way.
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elmot
7 months ago
I am just so glad that everything here are going positively. Thanks to all the people who supported me especially Jaypee. And you of course for constantly joining here on the discussions and affirming my blogging. I really appreciate it.
Amor
8 months ago
Congrats on your WP migration Elmot.

Amor´s last blog ..My WordPress Theme Playground
elmot
7 months ago
Thanks Mam Amor! Nawala na ang kaba ko sa pagblog under WP and actually I am just so glad that I am actually blogging under WP na kasi super blogger-friendly ng platform!
jack@BingoLive
8 months ago
You have introduced such nice persons and Congrats for the new house. Keep it up.
elmot
7 months ago
It is actually my pride to introduce such great persons. For mostly we don’t really know their great deeds behind their blogs. This is a time for me to honor them here.
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Loy
7 months ago
Aww…this post makes me cry..haha just kidding. How generous of Jaypee to give you a hosting account, considering that web hosting is expensive (at least to a cash-strapped blogger like me).
May Jaypee’s tribe increase. And yours too…

Loy´s last blog ..You’re the 1, Goldilocks
elmot
7 months ago
Hehhehe! May pagkadrama ka rin pala Loy ah ehehe!
Oo nga eh, can’t believe it, but I guess it is time for to prove na lang my worth on blogging para mapakita ko kay Jaypee na worthy ako.
Sana nga dumami pa ang lahi ni Jaypee! Ahahah! I-clone kaya natin xa ehehe!
Jaypee
7 months ago
I thought I’ve already commented on this post but apparently my forgetfulness has gotten the best of me. LOL
If you’re Cinderella, then that makes me your Fairy Godmother? Haha..anyways, you’re most welcome Elmot! Its an honor and a pleasure to be your “host”. This is just my way of sharing my blessings and trying to help new bloggers who have the potential to be able to start on the right foot/track and become successful later on.
Lastly, thanks for the kind words. I appreciate it and I’m glad that I was able to make you feel welcome in my blog and hopefully your other readers will feel the same way too.
To the other readers, thanks for the compliments and kind words. If any of you guys need any help regarding WordPress, don’t hesitate to contact me and ask me a question. I’ll be more than willing to help you out in any way I can.
To elmot, more power to you and your blog!

Jaypee´s last blog ..WordPress 2.8.3 Security Release
elmot
7 months ago
And if you are my fairy godmom, you are one very generous fairy god mom, with a little bit of forgetfulness taking the best out of you ehhehe!
I thought you haven’t read this post, that is why I even emailed you about it.
Anyways, thanks alot really. Madamo gid nga salamat sa imo Bro!
I will do my best to make you proud of me as a blogger, that I will do good as a blogger. You have taught me lots of things, especially on blogging the proper way.
Hey, these people were actually camping already on this post waiting for your grand entrance and talk to you, ehehhe! I told them to ask you for help regarding blogging stuffs, ehhehe!
Surender Sharma
7 months ago
Congrats for both of you.
Surender Sharma´s last blog ..Indian Independence day Dreamhost web hosting offer
elmot
7 months ago
Thanks Surrender Sharma for the visit here.
Tyrone | Millionaire Acts
7 months ago
Congrats Elmot! Ngayon lang ulit ako napadaan sa blog mo. Good thing you migrated to wordpress. I was having a hard time before accessing your blog when you were still at blogspot. There was an error that always occurs in my browser and then suddenly when I clicked “ok”, your site will just close down. Anyway, nice meeting you yesterday!
Tyrone | Millionaire Acts´s last blog ..Earn More Desire Less
elmot
7 months ago
Thanks for the visit Tyrone.
Oo nga eh, yun ang problema sa blogsot, kaya kakabadtrip that time..but now that alas, I am on a self-hosted blog under WP, blogging has become much better for me.
Nice meeting you too last night sa event…sana may susunod pa…
Barbara Swafford
7 months ago
Hi Elmot,
What a great way to show your appreciation to your friend Jaypee.
Congratulations on your new home. It looks marvelous and is a perfect match for your insightful posts.
Happy Blogging!
Barbara Swafford´s last blog ..Looking Into The Future
elmot
7 months ago
Hi Barbara!
Wow, it is my privilege to have you here on my blog! Welcome. Yeah, Jaypee has been very helpful and generous to my blogging. Hope with the self-hosted blog under WP I could truly bring my blogging to a new level…thanks to your online blogging class
Chris
7 months ago
nice meeting you pare sa influential blogs..
ako rin eventhough i am hosted already with crisiboy.com may isa pa kong blogspot na natatakot din ako mamessed up in transferring to wp…try ko kasi nagbbroken links ung permalink ng mga post ko..sayang din naman kung ibaback to start ko un kaya mas minabuti ko na imaintain as blogspot..
pre next time sama ko inuman nyo..hehehe gumimik pa ba kayo after the event??
Chris´s last blog ..Top 10 Emerging Influential Blogs for 2009 Grand Eyeball
elmot
7 months ago
Hi Cris! Nice meeting you too!
Actually after the event, most of the guys went out pa, to drink and show their singing prowess the videoke bar sa Makati. Pero umuwi na ako kasi layo pa ng bahay ko eh, baka paluin ako sa puwet ng nanay ko, wahahha!
Actually hanggang 5AM sila!!!
Sige, join ka sa susunod na EB and gala ng tropa.
Paano ba kita macontact?
I am also planning of retaining my old blogspot blog…kasi nga sayang…medyo bopols din kasi ako sa mga technical stuffs when it comes to blogging eh.
Chris
7 months ago
pare sige till next eb…hehehe sama ko sa inyo..sa wordcamp ba attend kyo???sa sept yata un…
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Chris Cobb
7 months ago
Congrats for new home. Its good for you Elmot! Now, experience the freedom of not living with your in-laws.
Chris Cobb´s last blog ..Frank Kern’s Mass Control 2.0 Review
elmot
7 months ago
Thanks Cris. You made me laugh with your thought. Yes, freedom from in-laws, nothing better than that one. Hehehehe!
zplits
1 month ago
A Filipino we can be proud of – JP…I know God will bless him and his family more. Because of what he’s showing and what he do to other people.
Taga diin ka elmot?